Dating and social interactions should be built on mutual respect and consent. Here’s how to stay safe while meeting new people:
In-Person Dating Safety:
- Meet in a public place for the first few times.
- Arrange your own transportation so you aren’t dependent on someone else.
- Let a friend know your plans, including where you’re going and who you’re meeting.
- Trust your instincts—if something feels off, leave the situation.
Understanding Consent:
- Consent must be enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing—if someone is hesitant, intoxicated, or unable to say “yes” freely, it’s not consent.
- It’s okay to change your mind at any time. A “yes” in the past doesn’t mean a “yes” now.
Recognizing Manipulative Behavior:
- Be wary of someone who tries to guilt or pressure you into anything you’re uncomfortable with.
- Watch for love-bombing—over-the-top affection early in a relationship can be a manipulation tactic.
- If someone repeatedly ignores your boundaries, it’s a red flag.